Many powerful men yearn to relinquish control to a thrilling woman, and to experience a delicious contrast to the decisive command they must display in their professional lives. In fact, being bound is one of the favorite requests men make of call girls – it is something exotic they don’t usually get at home. It is not meant to overcome a man’s reluctance, but to heighten erotic tension.
The very idea that you cannot escape from some very powerful sensations is extremely titillating and forces your body to ratchet up its pleasure receptors. Besides, bondage usually stretches or exposes the skin, which intensifies its sensitivity. As long as you trust each other and play intelligently a little friendly tying will add edginess and adrenaline to your lovemaking repertoire.
Pretend bondage. You may want to slide slowly into the idea of bondage by arranging your man in a somewhat helpless position, like having him lie atop his hands, and then instructing him to remain there where tied. Challenge his concentration by tickling him or giving him mind-blowing oral sex. A little light bondage can be easily accomplished by using a silky scarf, a soft sash, or a piece of your lingerie to tie his hands to the bedpost. Then tell him an outrageous fantasy while you caress him with leather, fur, or scented oil. Scrape your nails lightly over his back and derriere, and fondle the golden scepter he has momentarily surrendered to you.
Bonding treats. Use Velcro hand ties to bind your victim to the upper corners of the bed. Break out some really fine wine, dip your finger in the glass, and slide it across his lips. Dip in again, then glide it over his chest. Lovingly anoint other body parts. Follow this up by dipping your fingers into your own natural juices and lightly touching them to his upper lip. Whip out your fur-lined handcuffs, perhaps just after he has arrived home, and shackle him, sitting, to the front door. Then “desert” him and go change into something sexy, like a black Merry Widow, garters, and spike heels, while he is alone anticipating. Sashay right up to him and offer your exposed vulva to his lips. After you are satisfied, suddenly walk away again, leaving him to simmer in the fires of his lust and your musky aroma. Return in a nurse’s or French maid’s uniform, unzip his trousers, and inspect him with your hands, breasts, and lips. Leave and return in various costumes, offering different parts of yourself to him and commanding the stop-and-go of his excitement, until fever pitch is achieved.
Invigoration. Have him lie facedown on the bed and, using rolls of gauze, tie his hands together at the top of the bed, and his feet together at the bottom. With the side of your fists and the cupped palms of your hands, pound and slap him all over, alternating the pressure between light and heavy and occasionally scraping your nails over his enlivened skin. Because of the way you have tied him, you should be able to easily turn him over to give him the same treatment on his front side. Invigorate him with all-over pinching, pounding, and flicking. Then bring out your scissors, perhaps running the cool steel over his hot flesh with an evil gleam in your eye, and cut him free of his bonds so he can “retaliate.”
Ride em, Cowgirl! Purchase some 100 percent cotton rope in a hardware store, and one evening when he least expects it, lasso him and tie him to the bed, hands apart, feet together. In your cowpoke outfit (or perhaps just boots and bandanna), tease, rein, and tickle him mercilessly, finally hopping on top to ride him to that orgasmic pasture in the sky.
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