As if the move away from Florida into the cold (we don’t do cold) but beautiful foothills of TN wasn’t enough, apparently the audio server for Bondage-Radio died some where along the trip.
We’ve ordered a new Mac OSX server up from Apple and have placed it on rush order, however, our listeners are still without their Fetish Tunes.
We expect to be back up and running very very soon.
Some fetishes are crazy but it is true that they exist. Men and women are sexual animals who derive pleasures from various avenues. Here are some ten fetishes which are top on the list. It is good to gauge your degree of fixation by reading about other people. During a survey carried out recently the following was revealed. Number ten on the list concerns stomachs. Males and females admitted that taut tummies drive them crazy. They said they will never be caught dating a person who has loose tummy. However some men admitted that they love women with a teensy-weensy tummy to help them release their sexual urge on the woman’s tummy. Otherwise his experience would not be enjoyable.
Number nine among the ten fetishes concerns body piercing. There are people with an obsession about tongues, nipples, penises, eyebrows and belly buttons. They would not get turned on by a person without these or more body piercing. To them it is not only beautiful but prerequisite. Men love material such as rubber, leather, latex and vinyl. Actually they do not love the feel but the pornographic quality the material gives to the act of love making. Men will always have a fixation with a “bad girl” look even though they settle down with a “nice woman”. They find it teasing to watch a woman walking around in something tight and shiny. To some, the fetish goes as far as ordering their girlfriends to change their wardrobe to latex and leather attire only.
Among the fetishes, number seven concerns submission and domination especially in bed. There are some men who love their sexual encounters better if the woman orders them around like slaves. They are smacked, spanked and even penetrated with a strap-on. These variety of men enjoy being submissive to the women. I guess they are just tired of dominating all the time. Number six talks about something you are familiar with. Many people have a fetish with hand and feet. Some men only date women with beautiful toes and feet. This is because they love to bite, suck, lick and kiss their women’s feet. Crazy as it may sound, some women exclusively climax on sucking a man’s finger as though it was his penis. Number five on the list is about men’s crazy obsession with red lipstick and long, red-painted fingernails. It is a thing of the 1980s but it makes them feel like they are having adulterous sex which is exciting.
Men are so much into pigtails, braids and ponytails. Hair is a great fetish is among the ten fetishes. Men prefer dating younger women and dating one with a pigtail makes them feel like their desires are fulfilled. They too love the way the hair is tied up such that it resembles a whip. They then demand their women to whip them with the tied hair and it turns them on ultimately. Some women have a fetish for bald heads. They love to caress the bald head during a passionate embrace. Fetish number three involves water. Some people admitted to having enjoyed sex when there was some running water at the background. It could be rain or the shower. Number one on the list is voyeurism and exhibitionism. Many men need to see sex being in performance in order to enjoy their sexual encounter. They have to be watching pornography or erotic movies to orgasm.
Although fetishes are very common these days, some people are still having a very conservative attitude towards them. In fact, these people usually have a misunderstanding that fetishes are wired. This is really a misunderstanding. Fetishes are never something wired unless it is having sex with a dead body.
Actually, fetishes should be something very normal to our sex lives. It is just a matter of choice. They are full of fun and should be very interesting. And it may even make your sex life healthier. We can consider them something special to turn us on. They can be just something we think about when we are masturbating. There are also a lot of different fetishes. Yet we will usually hear about things latex and rubber. It is in fact a lot more than that.
As discussed and you may be well aware, latex and rubber are fetishes. And this kind of fetishes is usually related to some items or objects. For example, high heels can also be an item which consider fetish.
On the other hand, there are also fetishes without any actual item. Instead it can be something about acts. We can wear diaper and act like a baby. This can be fetish. Another example will be acing like teacher and student.
Interestingly, sometimes we may even know that we are having fetish. If you are someone who loves women with their pantyhose on, you are actually having fetish. If you love having sex with a woman with her high heel on, you are also having fetish. And there is nothing wrong with it. They are just what turn you on.
Besides the above, there are also a lot of other things which are considered fetishes. Leather, which sometimes falls into the same category as latex and rubber, is also fetishes. And even there is no actually item or acting like role playing, it can still be fetish. If you are a leg or feet lover, and you love licking the legs or feet while having sex, you are also fetish. At this point you may fully understand that why you may have been had fetish before without knowing it.
It is very important to understand that, as it is discussed at the very beginning, fetish is not something wired and you should not be conservative towards it. In the world of our sex lives, nothing will be regarded as right or wrong, as long as it does not hurt (physically and psychologically) or offence the law.
By Rhett Pardon, XBIZ.com
[From XBIZ Newswire - The Leading Adult Industry News Source For Journalists]
CINCINNATI, Ohio — As Max Hardcore prepares to begin serving his 46-month sentence for obscenity crimes, his attorneys have filed an appeal to the 11th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeal, requesting to orally argue their case.
In documents obtained by XBIZ, Hardcore attorneys point to a dozen issues of contention, including whether community standards should be applied to online material and whether a defendant’s sentence can be enhanced for sadomasochism when the evidence is that the acts were not painful.
The attorneys also want the 11th Circuit to weigh whether federal obscenity laws are unconstitutional when it comes to criminalizing the sale of adult material for private viewing, as well as whether the government can prosecute an online adult company when it didn’t have proof that defendants knew their site was hosted in the district of prosecution.
They also claim that the Miller test requirement that material be taken as a “whole” is impossible in the context of the Internet.
“Defendants’ federal obscenity convictions, the first of their kind in decades, are riddled with constitutional difficulties that mandate reversal on appeal,” the attorneys said in a brief filed yesterday. “Given these errors, defendants’ convictions and sentences should be overturned on appeal.”
Jurors in June returned a verdict of guilty against Hardcore on 10 federal counts of distributing obscene materials in central Florida over the Internet and through the mail. His company, MaxWorld Enterprises, also was found guilty on 10 related counts. Both Hardcore, whose real name is Paul F. Little, and his company were fined $1.4 million, as well.
Hardcore has been ordered to report to federal prison at Lompoc, Calif., on Jan. 29.
Attorney Jeffrey Douglas, who represented Hardcore at U.S. District Court in Tampa, said at the time that it was a “sad day for America” when he was convicted.
But on Wednesday, Douglas told XBIZ he was optimistic the 11th Circuit would take the case, giving kudos to the attorneys who wrote the 57-page, 13,085-word brief and will handle the appeal.
“All congratulations for this effort belong to H. Louis Sirkin, Jennifer Kinsley and that firm,” he said, referring to Cincinnati-based Sirkin, Pinales & Schwartz.
I am new to this lifestyle and am in my first D/s relationship. We have set up a safeword but I have mixed feelings about it. I know it is for my protection. One of my fears is that I will use it too easily or readily instead of trying to explore and push my limits. I also have reservations about using it because I feel that if I do then I will letting us both down and ultimately disappoint Him, which is the last thing I want to do.
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There are many arguments for and against the use of safewords while scening. For people who are scening together for the first time, or those who are new to BDSM, having a safeword in place can add a level of safety that lets both submissive and dominant relax into the scene better. Those who are in established, long-term relationships may find that the need for safewords is diminished.
A rare few dominant types will proclaim that the use of a safeword ends not only the scene but the relationship. In my opinion, these are the words of dominant types who do not understand the purpose behind the use of safewords. It’s emotional blackmail on a grand scale. No one is omnipotent. No one can anticipate every reaction their submissive partner will have. An activity that you tolerated without any difficulty one time, may elicit a different reaction the next time around. Sensations that you enjoyed one time, may be unbearable the next. It is at times like this when having a quick way of telling your partner that you are not able to cope is so vitally important.
Once you have used a safeword, it doesn’t end there. That’s when the two of you talk about why you needed to stop. What was going on in your mind? What was happening to you physically? How did you feel about everything up to that point? Then you can plan on how you should do things differently the next time around.
It is not a cop out to use a safeword. Nor should it be used as a form of blackmail against the submissive “If you use your safeword, our relationship is over.” It’s a way of saying — okay, things are getting a bit too much for me right now. I need to stop what we are doing.
Yes, you may feel a bit disappointed that you had to stop. This is better than regretting that you didn’t.
Having said that, if it were a case of my hand going to sleep or my leg being twisted or anything of that nature, I personally wouldn’t safeword, I’d just tell him. “My hand has gone numb.”, “My leg is twisted.” and then he can deal with it by adjusting my leg or loosening the bond and letting the blood flow back into my hand and the scene can continue uninterrupted. If things were such though that I needed to stop, I would tell my dominant partner that the scene needed to end.
Safewords are a quick and easy tool used to communicate needs. Like any other tool, it is only as good as the people using them. That’s where common sense comes in. Make sure anyone you even consider scening with holds the use of safewords, whether that safeword is a word or a phrase or a full sentence, to the same level of importance that you do.
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